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Wednesday, October 10 2012 12:27

Despite the domestic political news that dominates the airwaves this week, I am most moved by the shooting of Malala Yousufzai, the 14 year old Pakistani girl who had become a primary voice for girls' education. The Islamic fundamentalist Taliban claimed responsibility for the gunman who walked up to a school bus and shot the young woman in the head and neck. She is still being treated in a military hospital with her prognosis uncertain. How do we, progressives in the pluralistic West, react to a faith that spawns such violence and violates our most fundamentally held values?

Malala became well known when, at the age of 11, she began writing a blog (under a pseudonym for the BBC) about life under the Taliban. Her identity became known during a time when the Taliban were in retreat in the Swat Valley where she lives. But the Taliban are returning to influence in the region and this young woman was targeted.

How do we react and respond? Pakistani government officials have condemned the shooting. As do we. Is it our role, in the west, to contain or eliminate the Islamic fundamentalists who insist on strict observation of Sharia Law? Is that our role? Are we called to democratic “nation-building” in Afghanistan and in our “ally” Pakistan? Is this attack a good reason to keep American “boots on the ground” in the region?

Here, in the West, how do we hold both the beauty and depth that we have found within Islam as well as the terror carried out in the name of the faith? Should we find in the strands of Islam that are comfortable—that inspire us even (the Sufi mystics—Rumi and Hafiz)—a ground for hope? Should we center on the many commonalities in the great faith traditions?

Stephen Prothero, in his book God Is Not One, argues that the notion of religious unity is “wishful thinking…it has not made the world a safer place. In fact, this naïve theological groupthink…has made the world more dangerous.”

It helps to remember the many ways the Christian tradition has been used as the excuse for violence. Both the Inquisition and the present day attacks on abortion providers come to mind.

It helps to remember that the Taliban are a small “fringe” of the broad Muslim mosaic, as one Portland Pakistani recently said, “They are a 1% insisting on their way”.

It also helps to remember that our Muslim neighbors here do not embrace Sharia Law and welcome the hard won freedoms that Western culture promotes. Finding common ground with them is both easy and rewarding. Islam, like Christianity, is a broad tradition with many strands.

Perhaps our bedrock should be a stand for freedom as many social conservatives here argue. Defense of freedom should call us to stand against any fundamentalism that would impose its will on others. But would not that same defense of freedom defend the right of peoples to choose and sustain repressive regimes? What right do we have to enforce our ways?

I believe that the progressive impulse to find common ground offers hope. But there are differences among religious traditions as Prothero argues. And I do not believe that the Taliban will be moved or changed by our embrace of Rumi.

The issues require a more knowledgeable and thoughtful response than our easy progressive pluralism supports. How do we fashion a religiously pluralistic but un-homogenized vision?

These complex issues deserve thought, but this week I find myself in the simple place of sadness. Another young woman has been shot. Perhaps, despite our differences, we can find common cause in our grief. I know that the way forward is not clear, either abroad or here at home. But if we begin at the most human level, with our shared grief, perhaps common ground is more available than it may seem.

Blessings,

 

Bill

 

Last Updated on Thursday, October 11 2012 10:28
 

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#3 Chris Barghout 2012-10-13 09:51
I have family in the Middle East and Afghanistan and am a UU. Sinkford demonstrates here why so little common ground is found. All life has inherent worth and dignity. America and its allies have killed millions of Muslim and Christian children for decades, and yet only NOW does he find grief in the needless assault on a single child by Muslims.
Why her? Because she allied herself with occupation and violence in her homeland. Mentioned, though not in this light, is that education for girls is a pretext for continued American killing and exploitation.
Why does FIrst UU only invite Pakistanis and Muslims who support American imperialism and genocide? It's like only inviting French who worked with the Nazi occupation or only Blacks who gladly whipped other Blacks for their White planation masters.
The truth is not so complex. The inconvenient truth known to most people of color is that UU's too often stand with oppressors and against inherent human worth.
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#2 RobinEdgar 2012-10-13 05:52
The Taliban quite literally "shoot the messenger" with guns, but ever so "progressive" Unitarian Universalists "shoot the messenger" in various other ways, not the least of them being shameful, cynical, and outrageously hypocritical misuse and abuse of the legal system. . . And Unitarian Universalists are not above engaging in physical violence to intimidate and punish those who dare to protest against U*U injustices, abuses and hypocrisy. I have been physically assaulted by U*Us on several occasions and have had what a 911 dispatcher characterized as "death threats" uttered against me by belligerent U*Us. How do you, "progressives" in the so-called U*U World, react to your own bad faith that spawns such intimidation and violence thus violating "most fundamentally held" values of Unitarian Universalism? You turn willfully blind eyes to it and do absolutely nothing to condemn it and repent of your own bad faith. Nothing. . . And that includes you personally Bill.
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#1 Andy Wilson 2012-10-11 13:13
The shooting of Malala is such an atrocity it's hard to comprehend. The most heartbreaking thing is, it's not unusual. The shooters are the same men who stone a woman to death for adultery, or even holding hands in public. Atrocities are their bread and butter.
Americans have made war against a religion before: worship of the Japanese emperor as a god, and the doctrine his empire ruled all of the Pacific. We won, and teaching militaristic Shinto and emperor worship are forbidden by the Japanese constitution. Everyone in the world, starting with the Japanese, is safer. I do not know what it will take to get Pakistan or Egypt to the same place: still Islamic states, but where extremism is banished.
As Unitarians, this challenges our response to evil and the limits of our religious tolerance. We must try to understand. But please, no excuses? Muslims may have grievances. Everyone has. No grievance I can imagine justifies the Taliban's atrocities.
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