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Thursday, May 10 2012 11:01
President Obama, yesterday, offered his personal support for Marriage Equality. And, on Tuesday, North Carolina voters amended their state constitution to make illegal all “non-traditional” relationships. Joy and sorrow, relief and anxiety, satisfaction and frustration…as religious people we are called to hold all of these emotions while holding fast to our commitments.  It is no simple task.

I’m sure that our President and his advisors applied sophisticated political calculus to his decision to announce his support for Marriage Equality. I know that such calculations of political benefit and cost must be made. That is, in fact, how our political system is designed to work. But I also believe the story of the development of Obama’s position. His response to the same-sex parents of his daughter’s friends and to those members of his staff in committed gay and lesbian relationships finally won out. The story of the evolution of his position is a hopeful sign. Change can come.

The call for justice is powerful for some of us most of the time and for all of us some of the time. But it is out of our relationships and personal knowing of “the other” that justice most authentically grows. The Beloved Community is not built “at arm’s length.”

There remains a critical role for leadership, however. I expect our political leaders to stand for what is right, even when the political winds blow in the other direction. Opinion polls about Marriage Equality have been shifting toward acceptance for years, with now more than 50% of Americans expressing support. The demographics point to increasing acceptance over time. Younger Americans know that the time for this particular discrimination is over. The changes in public opinion no doubt made it easier for Obama to go public. AND his public statement will, I hope, speed change for others.

Still, there is North Carolina and the 29 other states that have voted to enshrine discrimination in their laws. Our work is not done. The words of Unitarian Theodore Parker are woven into the rug in the Oval Office: “the arc of the universe is long…but it bends toward justice.” I believe that and I also believe that it does not bend easily nor quickly and never without considerable pressure. Our task is to live buoyed by the hope that developments like Obama’s statement provide while, at the same time, knowing that there will be setbacks like the North Carolina decision.

So we celebrate, we mourn and we commit ourselves to the on-going work of creation. It is no simple task, but it is what we are called to do.

Blessings,

Bill
 
Who Are We? PDF Print E-mail
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Thursday, May 03 2012 10:54

Personal identity is complex. It is constructed out of the inheritance we are given by our families and communities of origin…and our reaction to them. We add our own dreams and the ways they have been fulfilled and disappointed. Often “the world,” the assumptions of our society, have significant impact, not always for the good. The religious identity we inherit or claim is also part of the creation that we know, in some more global or comprehensive way, as the Self.

Claiming an identity as a Unitarian Universalist requires the willingness to accept a certain “uncertain-ness.” There is no creed of belief we can confidently use to explain who we are to others, or even to ourselves. On good days, I experience that openness as an empowering sense of possibility that is inherent in my living. But there are days, even for me, when I wish Unitarian Universalism was simpler, more concrete…something I could give myself to or submit to. In the U.S., when someone says they are Baptist, few questioning eyebrows are raised. Wrong assumptions may be made, but it is rare when the response is, “What is that?”

We, therefore, spend more time than most trying to put language around our liberal faith. We certainly do here at First Church. Over the years, I’ve asked many UU groups to work on their “elevator speeches" -- i.e., what do you say when you get the question about Unitarian Universalism as you enter an elevator on the 5th floor and have only until ground level to respond. There is not time to recite the 7 Principles (even if you know them by heart) or give a long historical recitation of the Unitarian and Universalist traditions (even if you’ve studied them in your own religious search).

It can be helpful to read how other Unitarian Universalists have responded, how they have described our faith. In that spirit, here is one description by Ed Schempp, a lay person from New Jersey, that has always resonated with me:

“Unitarian Universalism is a fierce belief in the way of freedom and the reverence for the sacred dignity of each individual. It is cooperation with a universe that created us; it is a celebration of life; it is being in love with goodness and justice; it is a sense of humor about absolutes.

Unitarian Universalism is faith in people, hope for tomorrow’s child, confidence in a continuity that spans all time. It is trust in growing and conspiracy with change. It is spiritual responsibility for a moral tomorrow.”

I’m never that concise when I answer that question about who we are. I’m still searching for that one sentence that captures the power and beauty of our way of being religious. But I love Ed’s version:  “a sense of humor about absolutes.” Perhaps that is one thing we would do well to add to our seriousness. On those days that are not so good, perhaps laughter, as well as prayer, is a helpful spiritual response.

Blessings,

Bill

Last Updated on Thursday, May 03 2012 17:55
 
Does Your Faith Matter? PDF Print E-mail
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Thursday, April 26 2012 12:42

I was struck by the results of a recent survey conducted by Grey Matter Research about the impact of religious faith on society. (  What impact does the Christian faith have on American society? ) 1000 American adults were asked if the Christian faith had a positive, negative or no real impact on 16 different aspects of society, such as crime, poverty or the role of women in society.

The results of the survey may surprise you. Being a Christian scored very well in public opinion in terms of raising children with good morals and helping the less fortunate; fairly well in terms of impacting the role of women in society and keeping the US a strong nation.

“But out of the 16 different areas tested in this study, those are the only four for which at least half of all Americans believe the Christian faith has a positive impact on American society.”

The study is careful to point out that Christianity is not seen as a negative force in most areas…just not much of a force at all in areas like the amount of violence in society, ethics in business, the extent of poverty or care for the environment. “Irrelevant” is not a term used by the survey, but that seems to be the conclusion.

I found that conclusion startling, to say the least. For faith to have no impact on how we behave in our work lives or on the extent of poverty we will accept is a sad commentary.

There were two areas where Christianity was seen more often as having negative impact: how the US is viewed by other countries and, perhaps not surprising to most Unitarian Univeralists, the role of sexuality in society. Our faith invests a great deal of energy in promoting human sexuality as a “good” in our lives. But, on the role of sexuality, 37% of the respondents felt that the impact of Christianity was negative and an additional 37% felt that it had no real impact at all.

The survey did not ask about the impact of Judaism, Islam, atheism…or Unitarian Universalism. I wonder how we would have faired in such a poll. As a religious community that is small in total numbers, it is unlikely that enough randomly selected people would know enough about us to have much of an opinion.

But I wonder how we would rate our own impact. For a faith that stresses “deeds not creeds,” the impact for good that we do should be an important measure. I wonder how you would rate the impact of this faith and your participation in this community. Does your faith inform the way you live and does it change the way you relate to the world? These are, I believe, questions well worth asking.

Does your faith matter?

Blessings,

Bill

Last Updated on Thursday, April 26 2012 12:57
 
Important! Financial Sustainability Update PDF Print E-mail
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Thursday, April 19 2012 11:09

Much ministerial, staff and volunteer leadership energy has been focused on the financial challenges facing us. These include: re-financing the debt on the Buchan Building (required by April, 2013); the loss of Northwest Academy, our long standing weekday tenant in the Buchan Building (June 2013); shortfall in our Annual Fund Drive versus budget, despite the generous response of the congregation to the final matching effort (with immediate impact on our spending).

There are clearly many “moving parts” in our financial planning. Here is an overview of steps we have taken and upcoming planning/decision points:

  • Bring our expenses for this year (FY12) within our income: Complete.
  • Reduce pension contributions from 12% to 10% of salaries (Full Year).
  • Roll-back 1 ½% Cost of Living increases for salaried staff (Effective 3/1/12)
  • Reduce UUA and District Dues to FY 11 level.
  • Re-configure two staff positions (Full time to 3/4- time), eliminate one part time position and one handyman position.
  • Tightly control discretionary spending.

These changes, which will be on-going, help the development of a balanced budget for FY 13, but they do not cover the expense of the new mortgage on the Buchan Building.

Develop balanced budget for FY 13: Complete.

  • The Board of Trustees approved the budget during their recent meeting.  It will be mailed out in the ballot packet going to all voting members at the end of this month.
  • Pledge income assumptions are reasonable to conservative; increased revenues from music and adult dducation fees and revenue-generating activities are planned; we have also deferred elimination of the Learning Community fees for our pledging families. Anticipated interest cost for the re-financing (full year) have been provided.
  • Costs have been reduced in a variety of ways: an additional modest but painful salary roll-back for all salaried staff and reconfiguration of three additional staff positions to less than full-time. The financial impact of these staff changes is reflected in the “Additional Adjustments” line of the budget. There will be NO salary roll-back for hourly wage earners.

Securing a new mortgage:

  • Conversations with several banks (both national and local) have begun. With Board (and congregational) approval of the budget, application and negotiation can begin in earnest.
  • Several groups of congregants are being asked to make pledges/contributions to reduce the Buchan debt: those who have joined the church since the capital campaign was completed; those who have recently completed their pledges; those who, for a variety of reasons, discontinued their pledge payments.

New Tenant:

  • Negotiations are underway with two potential additional tenants for space in the Buchan Building for next year (FY 13). Replacing the entire rental income from Northwest Academy ($100,000/yr) for the FY 14 remains on our to-do list.

As I indicated, there are many “moving parts.”

Although we are working hard to streamline operations, you should know that there will be less staff capacity in the coming year(s). You will also see increased costs for our programming (scholarships will continue to be available) and additional fund-raising activities.

Your staff has demonstrated extraordinary understanding, commitment and patience throughout this process. Congregants will feel the impact of higher fees and reduced staff capacity, but it is the staff who are feeling the brunt of these changes directly and personally. Please hold deep thanks for their work in your hearts and understanding as we move toward financial stability and sustainability.

Through these difficult days, I remain thankful for the broad support and understanding of the congregation. There are also three groups that deserve your special thanks.

The Board Finance Committee, led by Treasurer Pat Malone, has consistently provided not only wisdom and guidance but a non-reactive and thoughtful presence that has made good decision making possible.

The new Stewardship Committee, led by Ron Yoder, is taking greater practical responsibility for our fundraising efforts.

The new Senior Minister’s Advisory Council has provided helpful counsel. Their broad view of our ministry and financial life is a great resource for me that I will continue to call on as we move ahead.

In Faith,

Bill

Last Updated on Thursday, May 03 2012 14:31
 
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